Be happy, be who you
want to be. If others
don't like it, let them be.
As the saying goes, happiness
is a choice. Life isn't about
pleasing everybody!
You can't please everyone. When you're too focused on living up to other people's standards, you aren't spending enough time raising your own. Some people may whisper, complain and judge. But for the most part, it's all in your head. People care less about your actions than you think. Why? They have their own problems!- Kris Carr
“I finally know the difference between pleasing and loving, obeying and respecting. It has taken me so many years to be okay with being different, and with being this alive, this intense. (xxvi)” - Eve Ensler
It's not about being who everyone else wants you to be, its about being yourself and finding someone who loves every bit of it.
Pleasing everybody is never a responsibility. If they like you for who you are, good. If not, it's their problem not yours.