You are not second best

You are not a back-up plan. You are worth more than someone’s second choice. You can’t force yourself to stop caring for someone, but you can tell yourself that you deserve better. Never settle to be someone’s second best. Raise your standards and choose to be with somoene who will treat you with the same respect and consideration you would treat them. You can’t expect to be someone else’s priority if you aren’t your own.

Being a second best or being expected to be someone you're not unfairly takes away some of your dignity. Being loved for who you are and being a priority should be an unbending principle. Remember your worth, be your true self and know you are valuable to someone. Respect and true love should not come with a price to pay. Don't settle for less or be with someone who doesn't defend your honor under any circumstance. Live a deserving life and live bigger than a second choice.

There is always someone somewhere who wishes to be with you and to treat you like a treasure so don't be sad for those who don't even take care of you.

Self-respect is the greatest love we can give ourselves. I will only be in a relationship where I am treated with respect and total love, I know my true value.