There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance. It’s amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, not-going-anywhere relationships. Observe the relationships around you. Pay attention. Which ones lift and which ones lean? Which ones encourage and which ones discourage? Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going downhill? When you leave certain people do you feel better or feel worse? Which ones always have drama or don’t really understand, know, or appreciate you? The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you…the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of your life.
I strive to be one who gives love, encouragement, and respect. However, there are some in my life who apparently feel the need to love from a distance. They get upset over petty things and stop communicating.
Once you know who you are, you stop making excuses for people who treat you badly. I have zero patience for games and disrespect.
Letting go can be difficult, but once done you realize what an incredible drain they were on you, mentally, physically and psychologically! Letting go allows healing to begin.