People need to learn that their actions do affect other people. So be careful what you say and do, it’s not always just about you. Pay attention.
Actually, each of us is much better served by learning NOT to take other’s words and actions personally, because it’s not always about us. Instead of tiptoeing around people, we should allow them the freedom to be responsible for their own emotions and reactions. As long as we’re behaving with integrity and compassion, we shouldn’t hold ourselves responsible for another person’s frame of mind.
People may not always tell you how they feel about you, but their actions will speak for themselves.
“You’re going to come across people in your life who will say all the right words at all the right times. But in the end, it’s always their actions you should judge them by. It’s actions, not words, that matter.” ~Nicholas Sparks
It's about ego damage. Narcissists can't get past their own drama and suck people around them into it like a tornado. Most of the times they don't realize that they are affecting others. They are a challenge for sure!
Don’t tell me you miss me. Tell me you’re on your way to see me. Actions speak louder than words.