Stop explaining yourself and telling people everything You owe no one any explanation of what you do. Your life is yours, not theirs.
This is me now I am not owned by anyone and can do whatever I choose to do and I don't need to explain myself to anyone I am my own person, don't need permission.
Yeah people, even loved ones think they can comment on everything about your life. From your job your relationship your kids your weight almost everything. Really frustrating sometimes.
Although there are times no explanation is needed, there are always grey areas. Nothing is absolute unless you like to be a self centered unkind person.