Most of my misunderstandings are because of my tone of voice. People think I'm angry even if I am just explaining my point.
What I call passion, others call obsession. Some say opinionated, I say well versed. Tone, well been told I'm abrasive. I call it straight forward. Tried to soften or just be quiet.... it's just not me😁
You are the common denominator. YOU need to make the change. Simple.
That's me for sure, can't help the way I am. Whether a person is soft spoken or boisterous At times it needs to be done. Know people far worse then I am but oh yea they are soft spoken.
I get the same about when I give a quick funny quip in response to what I think is a humourous moment. Some people dont have a sense of humour!!!!